In an American survey that asked senior citizens what they would do differently if they could relive their lives, three themes that kept cropping up are:
- Take more risks
- Be more thoughtful
- Do things of significance
1. Take more risks (calculated risks)
I would say, take CALCULATED risks.
Anything is risky - when you don't know how to play by the rules, even crossing the road can be very risky.
In the Game of Risk - You can only win if you understand how to play.
This would mean getting out of your comfort zone. What are you willing to take on that may be completely outside your comfort zone?
2. Be more thoughtful
How often do you see people actually take the time to ponder about the things they do? Let’s face it, most people do things as a matter of course, without thinking.
Is it any wonder that many people find their work – and indeed their lives – to be unfulfilling?
Ever wonder how slavery in the 21st century works?
“Go to school, get a job, retire at 55” VS “Retire Young Retire Rich – Never work again! Unless you choose to...” Which one sounds better to you?
3. Do things of significance
Direct quote from Oon Yeoh:
"Doing “something larger than yourself” might sound grandiose, like leaving some kind of legacy for the world. It could mean that, but it could also mean teaching a kid some useful skills that will improve his life. Or doing charitable work that will ease the suffering of the less fortunate. Or writing a blog that will give comfort, insight or inspiration to others. (could be why I setup this blog for a little contribution?)"
Whatever significant activity you decide to take on, do it with care, love and devotion. Sink your teeth into it and embrace it with complete abandon. For one of the great unwritten rules of life is that in order to truly find yourself, you must first lose yourself – to your chosen endeavour.
